Sometime identification of the people on the basis of their nature and for Indians emotions matter most. I think we can't deny this fact. It is quite true that we adopted e-mail and e-commerce little later but we invented e-motions far ahead than rest of the world. :)
Concerning for others contribute a bigger slice in the pie of emotions. If you further expand this "others" than it include your parents, brothers, sisters, cousins and all blood relatives. Further on it also includes our friends - for them concern is generated automatically. Also we can divide this "concern for others" mainly in two categories - selfish (covered major portion) and selfless.
I don't know how to remove selfish concern or may be haven't reach to that level to think in that direction.
Little deep thinking in selfless concerning. Definitely people don't expect the acknowledgement or return on investment (share market terminology) if they fall in this category. In this category, if the person would at least like to know that to whom the person is concerned so much is at least not discarding or avoiding that concern. Will that be count as a part of selfish concerning?
Sometime you’re in blocking state and you are not in position to proceed further than you will see around for the good thinkers and expect their answers... :)
2 comments:
Firstly...what a word "e-motion" bravo dishant :)
I want to add something to the concept of selfless concern. If you are into selfless concerning...then first you should never expect an acknowledgment...you can stop that concern it two cases.
1st..the other person asks you to stop it or to stay away
2nd if you think that. you showing concern is making the other person feel uncomfortable
@Hitesh: I am expecting answers from good thinkers.. :P just kiddin.
First thing is that you can't stop concerning, but you have to suppress it.
Now for the first point, person momentarily said you that stay out of it because you might hurt their ego or self-esteem. But when they realize it, they will be back with normal condition.
For the second point,uncomfortable is a condition of someone's perception. You can't define the level of it. It differs from person to person. Sometimes,its a condition before you haven't seen the result. Feeling uncomfortable means that the other person is not able to understand that selfless concern. May be that person is thinking that what will be the motive behind this concern? That makes them uncomfortable.
I think in every case, even selfless person also need some kind of acknowledgement. May be that is indirect or direct. Agree that they don't have to expect acknowledgement. And ofcourse this acknowledgement is much differ from the acknowldegement with selfish concern.
Just my view, can be different from others.. :)
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